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How to Build Investor Relationships Long Before You Need to Raise

Rob Rubin bio pic founder of Pivot CEO Academy

Saul Orbach

Founder

Fundraising

Phase 0.1 - Strategic Readiness in Practice


The best fundraising rounds are not launched. They are harvested.


By the time a term sheet arrives, most of the outcome has already been decided. Trust is established, momentum feels natural, and conversations move quickly. None of this happens by accident. It is the result of what great founders do long before they ever ask for a dollar:


They start meeting investors when they do not need anything yet.


Fundraising, at its highest level, is not a transaction. It is a relationship discipline. The CEOs who do it well all share the same approach. They begin early, consistently, and authentically.


This is Phase 0.1: Strategic Readiness, the quiet preparation that makes the future raise easier, faster, and far more successful.


Shift the Mindset: From Transaction to Trust


Shift the Mindset: From Transaction to Trust

Many founders approach fundraising backwards. They think the relationship begins the day they start raising. From an investor’s perspective, that is the worst moment. It is the moment you arrive asking.


The real relationship begins long before the pitch.


Your earliest conversations with investors are not about selling. You are not there to secure capital, impress with metrics, or “perform” a pitch. You are there to open a door and leave a positive, memorable impression.


The goal in these early interactions is simple:


Be someone worth following.


Ask smart questions. Seek insight, not approval. Show curiosity about how they think. The founder who listens, learns, and asks thoughtful questions always stands out.


This is where the old saying becomes true:


When you ask for money, you get advice.


When you ask for advice, you often end up getting money.


Start with the second path.


Start Early: 12 to 18 Months Before You Raise


If fundraising is the sprint, relationship-building is the marathon before it.



Strong founders begin meeting investors a full year to a year and a half before they expect to raise. In this phase, identify 20 to 30 relevant investors and begin having as many casual meetings as you can comfortably manage. Warm introductions are great, but do not hesitate to use cold outreach. The goal is simply to build the early context of familiarity.


Also, meet investors where they already are.


Events, conferences, meetups, demo days, industry gatherings, and trade shows all make it easier to create a first connection or have a follow-up conversation. These environments remove formality and lower the pressure.


When the time comes to raise, you want investors to say:


“We have been following this team for a while.”


That familiarity is worth real valuation points. It also shortens diligence because you are no longer a stranger. You are someone they already understand.


Create Lightweight Touchpoints


After an early meeting, do not disappear. But also do not overwhelm.


The goal is to create simple, meaningful touchpoints that communicate progress without pressure. Think small updates:

  • A short note about a product milestone

  • A customer win

  • A learning from a failed experiment

  • A meaningful hire

  • A market insight that sharpened your thesis

One or two lines. High signal. Low lift. Consistent. Familiarity grows through rhythm, not noise.


Let Them See You Learn


Investors prefer to back people who grow quickly.


Traction matters, but before traction exists, learning velocity matters more. Investors look for founders who:

  • process feedback without losing conviction

  • iterate their thinking

  • respond calmly to new information

  • demonstrate intellectual honesty

When an investor gives advice and you follow up later with what you learned or how you applied it, it sends a powerful signal: You adapt. You improve. You are dangerous in the best way.


Build the Relationship Log


Treat investor development the same way you treat sales. A simple investor CRM is enough. Track:

  • Investor name, fund, stage

  • Launch date of their fund (so you know where they are in their deployment cycle)

  • Date of first meeting

  • Areas of interest

  • Key questions they care about

  • Warm intro source

  • Notes from conversations

  • Your next planned touchpoint

Patterns emerge quickly:

  • who offers valuable insight

  • who opens doors

  • who disappears

  • who grows more excited over time

By the time you start raising, many of your strongest prospects will come from this list.


When You Actually Begin Raising


If you have done Phase 0.1 well, your formal round will feel familiar and calm.


Your pitch becomes an update, not an introduction. Investors already know your trajectory, your progress, your learning, and your story. As a result:

  • diligence moves faster

  • valuation conversations feel smoother

  • skepticism is lower

  • trust is higher

  • momentum compounds

Rounds that look “effortless” in public were prepared quietly for a year.


Lead With Integrity


Relationships matter just as much after the raise as before. Investors remember founders who:

  • communicated openly

  • followed through on commitments

  • treated them well in the pre-raise stages

  • behaved consistently after the money landed

Your long-term reputation is one of your greatest assets. Protect it.


Closing Thought: You Cannot Build Trust in a Sprint


Fundraising is a sprint. Relationship-building is the marathon that makes the sprint possible.


The founders who raise with calm, confidence, and conviction are the ones who played the long game. They met early. They stayed consistent. They showed learning rather than perfection. They built trust long before they needed capital.


Raise before you need the money. Meet before you need to raise.


Start early. Stay consistent. Let people follow your journey. Build trust before the pitch.


When the moment to raise arrives, you will not need to convince anyone you are ready.


They will already know.


At Pivot CEO Academy


At Pivot CEO Academy, founders practice this long-game approach to capital - learning how to build investor relationships with the same discipline they use to build teams: with consistency, integrity, and thoughtful follow-through. Through simulations, role-plays, and decision-loop exercises, they gain the confidence and calm that seasoned CEOs bring to the table.


Because fundraising isn’t about the deck. It’s about the people who believe in you before you ever ask.


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Saul Orbach

Saul Orbach is a serial entrepreneur, veteran venture capitalist, CEO advisor, and educator with deep experience helping first-time founders grow into confident, effective leaders.

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